CROSS DRESSER SHOPPING, TIPS AND ADVICE

Sure, this is a girl’s site, but, if I am honest, I am really a guy doing the best I can with girl stuff. And, so, this post is concerned with a common and annoying problem I have. Usually I shave in the shower because my face and legs present the best surfaces for hair [...]

Have you ever seen a qualified, professional therapist to try to delve deeper into your cross dressing? On the other hand, are you thinking about doing just that? I have ”been there; done that” and I have a few thoughts to share with you.
My experience is that a therapist is generally very interested and [...]

Everybody asks: “Why do you cross dress?” Rarely is there a good answer. But there is a more fundamental question than that – What is cross dressing? I think that it is not clear and that the what of it might start us on a journey into the why of it.
If you watched the National [...]

Have you been out in the world yet? If not, read this for some advice from someone (me) who made that first journey less than ten years ago. It was all about dealing with the stress of being seen and about the huge surprise that went with the day.
I had always imagined myself [...]

There have been many comments regarding the merits of buying clothes at thrift stores such as Goodwill. My own personal experiences have been fairly negative to neutral.  A lot depends upon your size, of course.
If you are a nice size 14 and only 5’6”, then the thrift store has probably got a great selection for [...]

Part 1 here deals with building a nice pair of hips and a waist for those of us who too little or too much in that area to fit well into a dress or cute pair of pants. It’s all about image in general and self image in particular and that stuff matters to someone [...]

When you think of dressing, do you always think of dresses? I used to be that way. It just seemed so right to wear a pretty semi-formal dress around the house. Today I have only one actual dress but lots of skirts, tops, and pants. There are reasons.

One day it dawned on me that I [...]

Transgender, cross dresser, transsexual, gay, bisexual… . What a soup of names and handles. I can understand why many people say that they reject handles which put them into little boxes. Still, if we did not have the handles, it would take forever to have a conversation. They really do serve well for purposes of [...]

The “art” of passing in the transgendered cross dressing world has been variously described as everything from the “Holy Grail of Dressing” to the Great Evil. To some it is the ultimate mark of success in having achieved a transformation to the degree where the person is able to freely move about and function under [...]